First, if you are offended by this, I do not apologize. This is my experience and I will not apologize for it. You do not have to read it.
Twenty years ago, I was pregnant with my son. I was unemployed, living in a home of a friend who was kind to help me out. I had no insurance, but was on state run Medicaid. I had no idea what I was going to do about my life. I was in the middle of a divorce and losing custody of my daughter. I was scared.
I filled out all the paperwork to have a tubal ligation when I gave birth to my son, because I knew I could not afford to care for me, let alone the child I was carrying, and I had lost my daughter. I just didn't want to risk having to give up another child -- even if it was what was best for them.
Before I gave birth to my son, Roe v. Wade was overturned. I lived in Louisiana at the time, and they immediately passed a state law banning abortions -- but added all kinds of contraception stuff to the law.
I gave birth extremely early Saturday morning at LSU Medical Center in Shreveport, LA. Because I had my child on a weekend, and tubal ligations were considered "elective" surgery, I was put on a two-year waiting list for this surgery. I was devestated.
I went to the Health Department for my check up, and they said they could offer me contraception if I knew what I wanted, but they could not discuss it with me -- the new law had dramatically affected how they operated. I am allergic to the pill, and my partner and the father of my son was allergic to latex. I didn't know if there was another option, so I left with no hope.
Eventually, my son's dad and I married (for financial and insurance reasons) and I was able to get the surgery.
WARNING! Below is MY Opinion based upon my experience.
Whether my lifestyle was right or wrong isn't the problem. A two-year waiting list for a surgery to prevent more children specific for women on state aid. How does this HELP our country? A health department that cannot explain contraception -- that works specifically with our nation's poorest population -- how does this HELP our country?
Personal beliefs, personal attitudes, religious beliefs and different moralities are exactly that PERSONAL. It is not the place of our government to legislate morality. In the 1890s it was common for women to have 10 or more babies, and common to die giving birth. These women worked in factories beside their children. They were treated inhumanely. It was illegal to discuss birth control. It was illegal for women to have a right to say I don't want any more children. This affected every single woman that did not have the wealth to ignore the government's stand. The wealthy women went to Europe and chose what to do with their own bodies. The poor had no choice.
Why is there a desire of some in this country to go back to that way of life??
Saturday, March 3, 2012
Monday, February 27, 2012
In Memory of Roberta Ruth Gill
I recently had a request my from my Aunt Dorothy. Could I make some dishcloths like her mother, my Grandmother, Roberta Gill used to make? She is down to her last one, and really likes them. Of course, my grandmother taught me how to crochet, and I love my aunt very much, so of course I said yes. I put all other work aside, and purchased some Perle Cotton #3 and some Perle Cotton #5.
I searched for patterns and found very few of them that are dishcloths made from Perle Cotton. Most are now made using Crafter's Cotton -- Handicrafter Cotton, Peaches and Cream, etc. So, I made one similar to my grandmother's pattern, and I made one in Granny square fashion, but I really wanted to do something fun!
So, I started just designing my own patterns. I am not sure if anyone else will like them, or even if my Aunt will like them, but I am glad that I can be a little creative. I have decided to offer all of these dishcloth patterns for free.... So, as soon as each has been tested, they will be added here!
Back to my hook~
So, I started just designing my own patterns. I am not sure if anyone else will like them, or even if my Aunt will like them, but I am glad that I can be a little creative. I have decided to offer all of these dishcloth patterns for free.... So, as soon as each has been tested, they will be added here!
Back to my hook~
Monday, January 16, 2012
Reading Crochet Charts by Catarina
Hi!
My
name is Catarina and today will go thru our first lesson on how to
read Crochet Charts.
I
don’t know what is the easiest way to start this as I have never
been taught this. I just got used to reading them on my own, as most
of the crochet patterns in Portuguese magazine come with a chart.
But
let’s start with the symbols. Every chart comes with a legend so
you know what it represents, but they are kind of universal and here
they are:
Crochet Chart Symbols
Sometimes
you may find a chart online that doesn’t have a legend or that the
symbols are a bit different from the list above. Well that is a
problem that arises when the pattern does not include it's own
legend. Sometimes you can read them; sometimes you can’t. So far
it has just happened for me once that I couldn’t follow a pattern
in chart form.
Please
don’t get overwhelmed with all these symbols, you don’t really
need to know them by heart, as you can always go back to your legend
and see what they mean.
So
let’s do a pattern reading from a simple chart, this time from a
granny square, as I think almost everyone know how to do them or at
least understands their construction.
So, as you can see
this chart has a legend, and the stitches used for this pattern are
chain, double crochet and slip stitch.
In this case we know
that granny square starts from middle, but sometimes you don’t know
how the pattern you are going to do is suppose to work out, but there
are some small things that will help you. Some patterns have a small
arrow indicating the pattern first stitch, and other’s have numbers
in rows (like this one), indicating what is that row so you just have
to look for row 1. But, mainly you just have to look at the symbols
– here you can see were the top of the double crochet is, so its
easy to see what direction the work is done.
Let’s start then,
with the reading of the chart. We start in middle, and...
Start with: 4 ch joined with sl st.
Row 1 is written in
black: ch 5, *dc 3, ch 2* 3 times, dc 2 and join with sl st in the 3rd chain from beginning of the row
Row 2 (in red): ch
5, *dc 3, ch1, dc 3, ch 2* 3 times, dc 2 and join with sl st in the 3rd
chain from beginning of the row.
So carry on by
yourself, leave a comment if you have some doubt and see you next
week for lesson # 2.
Hugs,
Catarina
Catarina Yarn Craft
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Eternity Cowl
Every once in awhile, people come along and really bring me down. They are all me, me, me. I spoke to a wise 90 year old lady from Louisiana last year, and she said that when was nursing the nurses all called those folks "Mimi", because they only think, "me, me, me". I had gotten real frustrated with the Mimi's in my world and really struggled to see the light of the world -- the love that lifts everyone up.
Then I met an amazing woman who still today inspires me all the time. Through her, I came to know the greatest group of ladies I do believe I have ever been blessed to know.... Thank you Jam!!!! Their love and support for each other inspired this design. Therefore, I have decided that the only right way to handle this pattern is to offer the light that inspired it to the world. This pattern will ALWAYS be free for anyone to use.
May the light of love be brighter in everyone's life!
Special note to the group: You know who you are. Thank you for bringing the light of love back into my life!
Notes: You can use any size hook you wish, it will just change the size. You can also add stitches by adding multiples of 4 to make it long. Another variation would be to skip the sc initial row; however, I would recommend understanding the stitch pattern and familiarity before trying this.
Then I met an amazing woman who still today inspires me all the time. Through her, I came to know the greatest group of ladies I do believe I have ever been blessed to know.... Thank you Jam!!!! Their love and support for each other inspired this design. Therefore, I have decided that the only right way to handle this pattern is to offer the light that inspired it to the world. This pattern will ALWAYS be free for anyone to use.
May the light of love be brighter in everyone's life!
Special note to the group: You know who you are. Thank you for bringing the light of love back into my life!
Eternity cowl
Materials:
Any
Sport or DK weight yarn
H
( 5 mm) crochet hook
Yarn
needle for weaving in ends
Abbreviations:
Ch
chain
sl
st slip stitch
sc
single crochet
hdc
hdc
dc
double crochet
Special
stitches
Solomon's
Knot (SK)
*Draw
up a loop on the hook (approximately 1 inch), ch 1, sc in loop drawn
up. Graphic instructions can be found at
http://creations-by-valorie.blogspot.com/2012/01/solomons-knot.html
Note:
different patterns use different sizes of loops; this pattern
specifically uses loops that are approximately 1 inch.
{I
found it useful to use an S crochet hook or Large Knitting needle for
setting the size of the loop for consistency until I got used to the
sizing of the loops, but consistency is not required for a lovely
looking scarf.}
SK,
SK loop: 2 SK stitches worked together in a row
*Draw up a loop on the hook (approximately 1 inch), ch 1, sc in loop drawn up. Draw up a loop on the hook (approximately 1 inch), ch 1, sc in loop drawn up.
*Draw up a loop on the hook (approximately 1 inch), ch 1, sc in loop drawn up. Draw up a loop on the hook (approximately 1 inch), ch 1, sc in loop drawn up.
Ch 108. Join with sl stitch (you can ensure a ½
twist to make it a mobius for one look, or leave it straight for another).
Row 1: ch1, sc in joining ch, *sc in next ch, repeat around (108 sc normal /216 sc mobius) join with sl st.
Row 1: ch1, sc in joining ch, *sc in next ch, repeat around (108 sc normal /216 sc mobius) join with sl st.
Row 2: ch 1 sc in joining stitch, SK,
SK, skip 3 stitch, sc in next sc, repeat around and join with sl in beg sc.
Row 3: sl st up to the top of the
[SK,SK] loop (you will need 3 maybe 4 slip stitches to get through
the long loop of the SK, ch1, sc in same stitch, SK, SK, sc in next
sc in the middle of the next [SK, SK] loop, repeat around (54 SK, SK
loops) join with sl in beg sc
Row 4 - _: repeat Row 3 until item is
the size you want (I really liked 5 rows, but make it like YOU like
it)!
Notes: You can use any size hook you wish, it will just change the size. You can also add stitches by adding multiples of 4 to make it long. Another variation would be to skip the sc initial row; however, I would recommend understanding the stitch pattern and familiarity before trying this.
©2012
Creations By Valorie
You
have permission to sell Any item made using this pattern. (It would
be nice to site where you got
the
pattern). You do not have permission to sell this pattern as your own. Please link to this pattern in order to share it electronically.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Solomon's Knot
I have heard so many people say that they could never get the Solomon's knot (SK) to work. I have been asked for a photo explanation so folks could match up their work to see if they were doing it right. So, this is my attempt to help folks learn how to do Solomon's Knot!
These images are from a recent design, so i will be showing two Solomon's knots together in series (I call it a SK, SK loop).
Starting point (just completed a sc)
Pull up a loop (a long loop)
yarn over
pull up a loop
yarn over
Pull up a loop (should have two loops on hook)
yarn over
Pull up a loop (this completes a Solomon's Knot (SK))
Just completing 1st Solomons Knot, we pull up another long loop
yarn over
pull up a loop
Insert hook in large loop (again two strands under hook, 1 strand on top of hook)
yarn over
Pull up a loop (resulting in two loops on hook)
yarn over
pull up a loop (You have now completed a second Solomon's knot)
Insert hook into sc in the middle of the next SK,SK loop
yarn over
pull up a loop
yarn over
pull up a loop (you are back where you started at a completed sc)
This photo just shows how the single crochet stitches are going into the middle of the SK,SK loop and what an SK, SK loop looks like.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Welcome to my world of insanity.
Today was a bit crazy - Ripped out the hood for a hooded cowl twice. And managed to get two new patterns posted in the store. I think I have bitten off more than this girl can handle.
I am organizing a CAL -- that has been voted to be postponed *or at least I think so*. I have a contest going on at my Facebook page, Creations by Valorie; and I am organizing a charity auction for Cranio Care Bears on I Love to Crochet, and I am organizing a drive for hats, blankets and toys for Cranio Care Bears. Tomorrow is a shopping spree. I have to finish this hooded scarf and get as much as I can done on the newest mobius wrap pattern.
I also signed up at http://www.sparkpeople.com to try to lose 50+ pounds by Dec 31st (what was I thinking?)
In addition to all this, I have a house that needs cleaned from top to bottom, and I need to find a paying job that can support us and my husband may lose his job any day.
I am not sure I am UP to the challenges I put in front of myself right now. Well back to the hooded cowl, and hopefully I won't have to frog it again!
Today was a bit crazy - Ripped out the hood for a hooded cowl twice. And managed to get two new patterns posted in the store. I think I have bitten off more than this girl can handle.
I am organizing a CAL -- that has been voted to be postponed *or at least I think so*. I have a contest going on at my Facebook page, Creations by Valorie; and I am organizing a charity auction for Cranio Care Bears on I Love to Crochet, and I am organizing a drive for hats, blankets and toys for Cranio Care Bears. Tomorrow is a shopping spree. I have to finish this hooded scarf and get as much as I can done on the newest mobius wrap pattern.
I also signed up at http://www.sparkpeople.com to try to lose 50+ pounds by Dec 31st (what was I thinking?)
In addition to all this, I have a house that needs cleaned from top to bottom, and I need to find a paying job that can support us and my husband may lose his job any day.
I am not sure I am UP to the challenges I put in front of myself right now. Well back to the hooded cowl, and hopefully I won't have to frog it again!
Hexagon Crochet Along CAL
We will be soon starting this CAL.
This link has the pattern and instructions: http://attic24.typepad.com/weblog/2008/11/hexagon-crochet.html
You can use any colors and any worsted weight yarn you want, but I would not recommend mixing weights of yarns.
I will most likely be using Vanna's Choice (only because I have so much of it).
I need feedback, one hexagon each week, or one step each week??? What would you prefer? Or should I offer both as options?
This will be postponed, but not for long. February 15th we will start this CAL. So mark your calendars and budget your yarn!
This link has the pattern and instructions: http://attic24.typepad.com/weblog/2008/11/hexagon-crochet.html
You can use any colors and any worsted weight yarn you want, but I would not recommend mixing weights of yarns.
I will most likely be using Vanna's Choice (only because I have so much of it).
I need feedback, one hexagon each week, or one step each week??? What would you prefer? Or should I offer both as options?
This will be postponed, but not for long. February 15th we will start this CAL. So mark your calendars and budget your yarn!
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